...my current GF, Erica, we never knew each other, we never liked each other, and we were almost kind of enemies sitting on the opposite tables, talking the opposite way, and almost hating each other. We never said a good word to each other, we never bared to have 1 look at each other.
GOD I hated her back then!
OH YEAH I DID!
What happened is, I was playing, Magic in school, AT LUNCH, in 9th grade, and that's when all the "love" starting going:
I played with my friends at launch, ofcourse, Erica, "THE COOL and POPULAR SNOB" was sitting all the way on the opposite table in the lunch room.
Ofcourse, she was sitting with the "cool" group, and I was sitting with the "lame" group.
The vending machines at lunch were by us, where we sit.
She came to the vending machines with one of her girlfriends, ofcourse, she cussed me out while she's at it, BUT this time, she actully came close to me, WHILE I was playing Selenia Dark Angel.
She was trying to cuss me out me in front of my friends, but instead, she saw Selenia Dark Angel, and that's when the connection was made:
Erica: "She's cute..."
Me: "SO!"
Erica: "What'r you donin'?"
Me: "Playing a GAME, now could you just f#cken leave!"
Erica: "What's it called?"
Nick: "Magic..."
Me: "Who CARES, just leave..."
Erica: "MAGIC?"
Me: "YES, MAGIC!"
Erica: "So what you do?"
Nick: "Cast spells and destroy buildings and stuff..."
Erica: "Oh?"
Me: "Yes...Leave..."
Erica: "If it's real Magic, why don't you make me more pretty?"(asking me)
Me: "Pretty?"
Erica: "Yeah..."
Me: "You're already pretty..."
Erica: "I am?"
Me: "You know it..."
Erica: "Do you like me?"
Me: "NO!"
Erica: "I like you..."
Me: "WHAT!?"
Erica: "Call me..."
She turned around, smiling, and left back to her table.
I called her...
That's not exactly how it happened, but it's about 95 percent accurate.
I don't know what happened or why, but since then, the 9th grade, till now, 12th grade, we are very, very close.
The point is, we were fighting all the time, we practically hated each other, for some reason, but something wiered happened, and I can't explain it.
Relationships and all that is just one wiered and complex stuff.
There's no telling to what exactly is a "right" way.
It's just random for random people and random lives.