turgy22
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Off-Topic rant regarding the Boy Scouts debate: First, I'm pretty sure that EB was referring to the BSA getting sued by the gay scout/scout leader (can't remember which) who came out and got banned from scouts. As Oversoul said, the BSA basically won the litigation and were permitted to keep homosexuals out of the organization. But the whole situation was completely ridiculous.
The problem starts from the fact that our society treats homosexuality like some sort of disease. To counteract this stigma, gay people feel like they need constant affirmation for being gay. Hence, they have pride parades and feel the need to "come out" where they tell everyone about how they're gay and proud. If society was more accepting, gay people could just be themselves without having to announce it to the world.
Before this happened, the Boy Scouts basically operated under a "don't ask/don't tell" system. When the guy came out, the organization was put into a lose-lose situation. They couldn't allow him to stay in the troop because most parents are afraid to have gay people around their children and most troops in this country are sponsored by churches, who likely would have cut funding for an organization that accepts "sinful" behavior. On the other hand, the organization also had very strong ties to the government and by excluding gays, would lose government funding and use of government facilities.
Obviously, the BSA did what was in their best interest, siding with the religious and traditional values, but it still cost them quite a bit in the end. What bothered me most (as an Eagle and scout leader) was that all this could have been avoided if gay people didn't find it necessary to announce their sexuality to the world.
As another example, atheists are technically not allowed in BSA, either. The organization was founded on religious values and that includes the belief in some greater power. However, a number of scouts don't believe in God, yet continue to participate. It's not an issue because atheists don't feel a need to tell the world who they are or what they believe in. Why can't homosexuality be treated the same way?
DF: I haven't heard about this rule where girls must be allowed in Boy Scouts. If true, it certainly hasn't affected my troop. Some of the scout leaders are women, but outside of Venture Crew, Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts remain separate. But I'm personally in favor of allowing girls into the BSA. The problem with Girl Scouts is that as a whole, the organization is very poorly run and the troops generally aren't as well established or supported as their Boy Scout counterparts. I know a girl that had to go through three different troops to earn her Gold award because they kept folding. The BSA offers a level of stability that makes it a much more appealing organization. And having a daughter myself, I'd much rather see her enter Boy Scouts, where she can learn survival and leadership skills as opposed to selling cookies.
The problem starts from the fact that our society treats homosexuality like some sort of disease. To counteract this stigma, gay people feel like they need constant affirmation for being gay. Hence, they have pride parades and feel the need to "come out" where they tell everyone about how they're gay and proud. If society was more accepting, gay people could just be themselves without having to announce it to the world.
Before this happened, the Boy Scouts basically operated under a "don't ask/don't tell" system. When the guy came out, the organization was put into a lose-lose situation. They couldn't allow him to stay in the troop because most parents are afraid to have gay people around their children and most troops in this country are sponsored by churches, who likely would have cut funding for an organization that accepts "sinful" behavior. On the other hand, the organization also had very strong ties to the government and by excluding gays, would lose government funding and use of government facilities.
Obviously, the BSA did what was in their best interest, siding with the religious and traditional values, but it still cost them quite a bit in the end. What bothered me most (as an Eagle and scout leader) was that all this could have been avoided if gay people didn't find it necessary to announce their sexuality to the world.
As another example, atheists are technically not allowed in BSA, either. The organization was founded on religious values and that includes the belief in some greater power. However, a number of scouts don't believe in God, yet continue to participate. It's not an issue because atheists don't feel a need to tell the world who they are or what they believe in. Why can't homosexuality be treated the same way?
DF: I haven't heard about this rule where girls must be allowed in Boy Scouts. If true, it certainly hasn't affected my troop. Some of the scout leaders are women, but outside of Venture Crew, Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts remain separate. But I'm personally in favor of allowing girls into the BSA. The problem with Girl Scouts is that as a whole, the organization is very poorly run and the troops generally aren't as well established or supported as their Boy Scout counterparts. I know a girl that had to go through three different troops to earn her Gold award because they kept folding. The BSA offers a level of stability that makes it a much more appealing organization. And having a daughter myself, I'd much rather see her enter Boy Scouts, where she can learn survival and leadership skills as opposed to selling cookies.